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Articles and books by HELPS Counsellors on love, marriage, intimacy, forgiveness and family life.

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Is Sexual Enjoyment Godly? – Part 2

The second part of HELPS Counsellors’ discussion of sexual enjoyment, faith and relationships…

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Is Sexual Enjoyment Godly?

Sex/sexual enjoyment matters are rarely talked about where it ought to be nicely discussed. Friend, as someone who possibly attends Church meetings on a regular basis; let’s assume you got…

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GROW YOUR LOVE – Part 1

God’s purpose for all His children right from creation is that we enjoy our lives. His word says: “ Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God…

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Tap the Potentials

Just some few weeks back I had what I considered free time to explore my smartphone again. And guess what, I discovered another useful function on a tool I have been carrying about for…

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Forgive for your health

Medical science is revealing the danger of unforgiveness. As Christians, we already know that we are commanded by God to forgive. Jesus stressed this in His ministry. So we know to be…

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Watch out for the silent killers!

The word of God makes it clear that it is wisdom to watch and pray! It is important for lovers to be on the lookout for certain things that can be cancerous in their love life. Below is an…

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Not Everyone Will Be Married

Marriage is glorious, but the single life dedicated to God, for as many as are so-called, is equally glorious. The word of God makes it clear that an individual can be so gifted by God to…

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Marriage needs maturity

Reading through the word of God, it is clear that God places a high premium on marriage. That should be so because we can observe that all of life – Church, Ministry, Nation, and what have…

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Keep The Promise

Friends, each spouse is expected to keep to the marriage covenant faithfully. We read of a man in the Bible who had a perfect understanding of what covenant means. The man in question…

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Sex: Intriguing & Mysterious

SEX is one of the most intriguing and mysterious human activities and one of the most important. Without procreation man will become extinct. Yet sex is abused and trivialised by a large…

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Marriage: Glorious Institution

CONTRARY to the lies of Satan and the perversion his agents have brought into marriage institution, marriage remains a glorious, Godly and holy establishment – Hallelujah! Our prayer is…

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The Silent Killer!

Separation is a silent killer, yet it is gaining ground like wild fire! It sounds so plausible and very logical, yet its effect is devastating on the homes. Many are quick to explain why…

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Love in the air!

The month of February remains a very unique month in the lunar calendar. Apart from its being the only month that refuses to hit the 30 days mark, its 14 th day adds to its uniqueness. It…

Books by Bayo & Funmi

Enemies on Rampage

Bayo & Funmi Eesuola · 1995

The first book published by Bayo and Funmi Eesuola, exploring threats to the family and how couples can protect unity, love and faith.

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Enjoy, Don’t Abuse Sex

Bayo & Funmi Eesuola · 2005

A scripture-based book for married couples who want to understand and enjoy intimacy responsibly.

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Not Made to Die

Bayo & Funmi Eesuola · 1998

A faith-centred reflection on developing a life-giving attitude towards mortality, hope and purpose.

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Marriage: Start Right and Stay Blessed

Bayo & Funmi Eesuola · 1998

Guidance on choosing a marriage partner wisely and enjoying the blessings of married life.

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